"Men are all the same." I have heard that expression so many times from all sorts of women. From the women that I have spoken to, they always tell me that "there are not many decent guys left". I disagree! Men are not all the "same". There are however, plenty of women out there that would claim otherwise, which makes them same, not the men. Imagine how offended girls would be if the statement was "All girls are the same".
In fact, these are the worlds of a jaded woman. Girls who say things like that have usually many bad experiences with men. The same goes for men who have had many bad experiences with women. Women use the same disproven arguments repeatedly. It's really sad...
I have realized that all men are different; some are sensitive, some are always playing games with other's emotions, etc. We should not say that a 19 years old man cannot be as caring/compassionate as a man in his 30's can be. If the immature guy is saying things like - "I need some space". or perhaps "I don't want to hurt you" or possibly "I don't know how I feel", you can be totally sure the guy does not want you as a person in is life; the guy is just too immature to tell you honestly. Not all guys are the same. They only think similarly. Men say these thins not to hurt your feelings.
I think everyone is also capable of change. I do not think "once a cheater, always a cheater". I believe that there are plenty of good men out there. Another thing is that men are not women, we for the most part look at things differently, men tend to be more analytical while women tend to be more emotional.
Women attract men through their physical appearance. So when a man notices an attractive woman, his predating nature turns him into a mindless robot. Thus, you will most likely receive the same type of attitude from most of the men, when later in life, go for the "Nice guys." I think parents should do a better job raising their children (both girls and boys) and teach them some discipline. It depends on how mature a girl is. If a girl is reasonably smart, she'll want to be with someone who respects her. If woman uses the power of personality, confidence and self esteem.... then men would try to please her and make her happy by giving her respect and she will not get emotionally or physically harmed by them.
When women repeatedly deal with bad relationship, most often they look to blame the guy. Why did he do wrong? They forget that it takes two to tango, and may be they are making a mistake somewhere along the line. Do they always go for the same kind of men? Are they too needy? It is simply understandable that women receive only those behavior from men which they actually look for.
They are also some women who say such statements to their friends to comfort them if they are having any issues regarding men, "they don't really feel that way". I hate it when women say that "All Men Are the Same". If men are all the same so there is only one thing through which women can tell them apart and that is their different faces. Those women who say so should be asked who told them to try ALL OF THEM....
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A GIRL'S FB STATUS UPDATE: Wow! I just found the love of my life! Nothing will ever stop me from loving my man!"
2 DAYS LATER: "Never make someone your priority, when you are just an option.
3 DAYS LATER: "I am happy to remain single and will never fall in love again!"
5 DAYS LATER: "I am looking for a man to love and treat me right".
8 DAYS LATER: "All men are the same!"
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My advice to these women is to stop blaming men and try something new. If you are not that mature to handle a relationship then first of all do not get indulged in such activities and if you cannot help getting involved, just focus on what kind of men you are choosing. Is he able to let you live a good and pious life? If not........make a criteria for your own needs and choice. Instead of blaming men; reorganize yourselves!.